I obviously can’t control what people are going to do with my sims in their game, that’s a given. I don’t have a problem with someone contacting me and asking if they can change her eye or hair color, that’s fine and I can guarantee that I’ll most likely give them permission to do so. But I’ve seen so many people have their creations fucked with and I’d rather have some set rules then have people claim that I didn’t set any rules to begin with.
I get my piercings from various different places, pickypicachu and IN3S have good ones. As for the stretched lobes, you can find the slider and plugs here but I’m not sure where I got the rest of my jewelry for stretched lobes from. I’ll update this ask if I come across them. And no problem, I’m happy to help!